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Leadership: Be a Thermostat, Not a Thermometer

In Your Corner, Leadership and Change Management, Supporting Teachers

Leadership: Be a Thermostat, Not a Thermometer

Regardless of our role on a campus or in a district, we can lead. Leadership can be exercised formally or informally. Leading is not a matter of title or position; rather, it is defined by what we choose to do and not do within our current environment. The truth is that anyone—administrator, teacher, professional staff, or another role—can be a leader.

We might think of the choice of whether to lead as comparable to choosing to behave as a thermometer or as a thermostat. Both devices have a role to play, but their functions are significantly different and their relationships to the environment, while overlapping, vary in important and even determinative ways.

Actual thermometers measure and report the current temperature in a space. In the context of a school culture, being a thermometer may mean that we read the climate and reflect the culture. People who act as thermometers may understand what is happening, how the current circumstance is perceived, and how people interpret their experiences. However, thermometers do not attempt to change the environment. Cultural thermometers may point to what is working well, what is creating confusion, or what is generating resistance, but they do not attempt to influence conditions.

Thermostats also measure the temperature, but they go beyond recording and reporting to modifying, adjusting, and regulating conditions. When applied to an organizational culture, behaving as a thermostat implies our acting to modify, correct, and improve the culture we and others experience. When we choose to behave and lead like thermostats, we strive to make a difference, improve the experience we share, and align the culture to key organizational values.

If we press the analogy further, we can see how differently the choice of behaving like a thermometer varies from the leadership choice to serve as a thermostat. Here are seven examples to consider:

  • Thermometers may complain, but thermostats contribute.
  • Thermometers may react to what is happening, but thermostats act to change conditions and improve the culture.
  • Thermometers can measure and report how good or bad things are, but thermostats use the information to manage factors and forces that matter.
  • Thermometers may observe, but thermostats act in ways that will influence.
  • Thermometers are quick to see problems, but thermostats seek effective solutions.
  • Thermometers are prone to mimic what is happening, but thermostats are committed to model behaviors that will make a difference.
  • Thermometers reflect the present, but thermostats anticipate and shape the future.

These are difficult times in education. Pressures from both inside and outside the world of education make the work harder. The challenges we face to ensure our students learn and succeed are daunting. Yet, a healthy culture of connection, collaboration, and commitment can more than overcome the pressures and challenges we face. The question is: Will we choose to be thermometers that report and reflect reality, or will we be thermostats that refuse to accept what is as inevitable and act to shift reality and build cultures that are strong, resilient, and responsive?

Ten Ways to Teach Mental Toughness

Climate and Culture, In Your Corner, Thinking Frames

Ten Ways to Teach Mental Toughness

Many people have the perception that today’s youth are not mentally tough. Some argue that young people have been too protected and, as a result, have not developed adequate skills to deal with adversity. Others point to the disruption and confusion of the past decade and uncertainty of the future as delaying and distracting students from developing effective coping strategies and skills. Still others blame social media and an expectation for immediate gratification. Regardless, it seems that today’s students are more emotionally vulnerable and externally dependent than past generations, and they find it more challenging to deal with life.

Regardless of whether this perception is correct, mental toughness is an important life skill. Helping students to become more resilient and better able to engage in life’s challenges is a worthy endeavor. We need to understand the characteristics of mental toughness in order to nurture it.

To be clear, mental toughness is not about acting tough, denying emotions, or being unkind. Mental toughness involves developing resilience, courage, and confidence to take smart risks, learn from mistakes, and press forward after setbacks. Here are ten ways we can help students to develop mental toughness:

  • Reinforce the importance of using effort, strategy, and persistence to overcome challenges. Coach students to experience the benefits of sticking with significant conflicts and problems until they find solutions.
  • Give students opportunities to practice solving problems independently. Present dilemmas and situations for students to study, deliberate on, and test strategies for solving before providing answers. Allowing students to struggle gives them more ownership and often generates greater commitment to learning.
  • Teach students to set goals. Follow up by coaching them to define discrete steps, establish progress benchmarks, monitor their progress, and celebrate their success.
  • Coach students to reflect, examine, and re-engage after successes—and setbacks. The process can help students to understand their strengths and areas in need of improvement.
  • Have students practice positive self-talk. Identify useful, meaningful affirmations. Coach students to recognize unhelpful and negative thinking and replace it with positive, productive perspectives. Encourage students to avoid self-deprecation and defeatist thinking.
  • Teach students to accept, sort, and learn from feedback. While among the most powerful ways to build new learning and skills, feedback can be difficult to accept. Coach students to listen closely to feedback, examine how they can use it, and apply what is useful as soon as it’s practical.
  • Discourage “either/or” thinking. Coach students to examine positions, perspectives, and problems to see variations, variables, and values that contain elements of potential agreement—or at least understanding. There is much that is valuable and worth examining between “all” and “nothing,” “perfect” and “horrible,” and “good” and “evil.”
  • Nurture character. Character building does not have to be controversial. There is near-universal agreement on core traits such as honesty, responsibility, empathy, compassion, and fairness.
  • Teach and have students practice focusing. Point out that focusing typically involves making thinking connections and resisting mental distractions. Challenge students to engage in deep and extended concentration. Encourage them to set goals to gradually extend the length of their focus.
  • Reinforce the value of gratitude. Despite life’s disappointments and frustrations, there almost always remains much for which to be thankful. Developing the practice of noticing what is good in life and celebrating what is positive can help to balance missteps and setbacks with hope and optimism.

Mental toughness is a key skill to generate success in this changing world. Depending on the age and maturity of your students, not all these strategies to help your students develop mental toughness may fit. Feel free to sort and adjust the steps you will take based on what you know about your students. The key is to expose students to challenges, setbacks, and disappointments in a setting that is safe, supportive, and nurturing.

Five Ways to Overcome the Seasonal Slump

Climate and Culture, In Your Corner, Supporting Teachers

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Executive Presence: What Is It? Why Do Educators Need It? Here’s How to Get It!

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Executive Presence: What Is It? Why Do Educators Need It? Here’s How to Get It!

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