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Teachable moments can be magical times for teaching and learning. After all, they hold the potential to open doors to exploration. They can capture intrinsic interest and lead to amazing learning adventures. However, they often arrive unannounced and can be easily missed or misinterpreted. They can even seem like interruptions and distractions rather than invitations to learning. 

These (often serendipitous) events can emerge as questions, mistakes, misconceptions, unfounded assumptions, and other seemingly innocuous comments and observations. Unless we are open, aware, flexible, and attentive, teachable moments can present themselves and dissipate without our realizing what we missed. Fortunately, there are practical strategies we can employ to recognize and make the most of teachable moments. Here are seven ways we can be ready to recognize and exploit these special teaching opportunities. 

First, we can be fully present. If we allow ourselves to become preoccupied with what we have to say and what we intend to happen, an unanticipated connection, useful observation, or provocative question can pass us by and leave a teaching and learning opportunity unexploited. Noticing and capturing teachable moments often is referred to as practicing attentive flexibility. 

Second, we need to listen closely and deeply. Students often tell us more about what they want, need, and are interested in than we realize. An important misconception may lie beneath confidence. Curiosity may hide behind a promising question or comment. Listening for what is not said can be as important as what is spoken. We can ask ourselves, “What are students telling me without saying it?” 
 
Third, we can watch for and capture connections to students’ lives. When students see how what they are learning may be relevant to their lives, casual attention can turn into engagement and compliance can shift to commitment. 

Fourth, we might make mistakes and elevate errors. Powerful learning experiences can emerge from examining the nature and causes of mistakes. Confusion and misconception can become the source of new understanding and memorable learning. Normalizing not knowing can make exploration and risk-taking safe and open the door to memorable learning moments. 

Fifth, we can teach with peripheral awareness. We can listen for side comments, confusion, or excitement. These and other similar behaviors can signal a change in energy in the room and may signal an opportunity to shift our attention and pace to explore the cause and implications. Teachable moments are often found in the unplanned and unanticipated responses students have to our instruction. 

Sixth, we might ask purposeful follow-up questions to explore what is behind a student’s response, what drove a perplexing question, or where a comment might lead. Teachable moments are more likely to surface in response to a secondary question than an opening or initial question.

Seventh, we can resist planning in excessive detail and with rigid pacing. Thinking of the lesson as a guide rather than a hard and fast blueprint can build in flexibility to pursue potentially teachable moments. We might identify the “must do’s” in the lesson so that we can adjust as the lesson unfolds and we see how students are responding. Too much structure can create pressure to follow the script rather than follow the learning. 

Capturing teachable moments does not mean that we must chase every unanticipated happening or pursue every off-topic comment or question. Rather, we can trust our instincts, use what we know about our students, and remain flexible enough to adjust and refocus when we sense something important may be available to pursue.   

Schools perform a wide array of functions and depend on many people to accomplish them. Naturally, within this context, people develop relationships and alliances with others who may perform similar functions or share other connections. These affiliations often lead to sharing expertise, building a sense of belonging, and creating alliances.

Unfortunately, they also can lead to separation among groups. For example, some teachers may see their interests and priorities as different from administrators. Or some may perceive staff in other roles as competition. Other issues and perceptions can result in other types and levels of separation within the school.

Over time, these perceptions can solidify into an “us versus them” mentality. When this happens, communication can break down, collaboration may suffer, and identities separate. The separation often produces reduced levels of morale, increased resentment, and even burnout.

 Students, too, can suffer when adults adopt an “us versus them” mentality. Services may not be well coordinated, support may become disjointed, and learning opportunities may diminish. Of course, students are likely to sense the conflict and resentment among adults they depend on and feel torn and stressed as a result.

So, what can be done if we find that an “us versus them” mentality is developing or is already present? Fortunately, with commitment, patience, and persistence, “us versus them” thinking can be overcome. Here are six steps to get started. 

Focus on purpose, not position.

Everyone has a role to play in accomplishing the school’s mission. When the emphasis is on the goal of student success and everyone shares in the work, there are far more reasons to collaborate, partner, and support than to separate, silo, and single out. The mission of schools is multi-faceted.  Success depends on everyone’s contribution. Viewing some members or groups as “others” makes the work more difficult and less satisfying. When we realize that we are all in the work together and we need each other to fully succeed, working together becomes easier. Sharing student stories, highlighting the impact of shared efforts, and mining data for new ideas and opportunities can create energy, promote shared ownership, and mutual appreciation.

Insight: Shared purpose can create connections, energy, and mutual respect.

Invite input early and often.

Listening sessions and open discussions that are taken seriously matter, but only if what is said is considered and used to guide deliberations. Input that is invited too late in planning and decision making can fuel resentment rather than trust and support. Willingness to wrestle with difficult questions may feel risky at first, but over time, openness and dialogue can build high levels of trust and lead to better decisions.

Insight: Input matters only if it is timely taken and heeded.

Commit to decision making transparency.

Knowing the “why” behind decisions can go a long way toward creating understanding, even when not everyone agrees with the outcome. When the factors, processes, and criteria that drive decisions are shared throughout the process, much of the mystery and suspicion can be avoided. When everyone understands the objectives, constraints, and options considered, trust grows.

Insight: Transparency strengthens decision credibility.

Create cross functional teams.

Bringing varied experience and expertise to focus on problems and design new initiatives can prevent foreseeable problems, build ownership for decisions, and create longer lasting solutions. Similarly, forming teams of teachers and administrators to conduct instructional rounds followed by reflection and analysis can surface examples of excellence to build on and opportunities for improvement. Planning, celebrating, and solving problems together can dispel faulty assumptions, build mutual understanding, and lower mental walls that can get in the way.

Insight: Diverse perspectives and varied experience will open the door to new possibilities.

Engage in productive conflict.

Avoiding conflict and ignoring tension reinforces separation and undermines trust. Honesty, respect, and clarity do the opposite. Having norms and processes to deal with disagreement such as assuming positive intentions, remaining open and curious, and committing to focus on issues and ideas rather than people can help to keep conflict respectful and productive. People will not and should not always agree, but they should always feel heard and respected.

Insight: Engaging in conflict that leads to understanding is more important than finding agreement.

Make wins “we” celebrations.

“We” language can send a powerful message of collaboration and appreciation. It is not “my” staff or “my” team, it is “our” staff and “our” team. Recognizing shared achievement leads to shared identity. Think: “We solved this problem.” “We improved this process.” “And we are making a difference for students.” Success as a school always is a shared effort and accomplishment.

Insight: Shared credit builds shared identity.

Finding common ground and forming shared identities takes time. However, the benefits of everyone sharing in the mission, committing to listening, engaging in productive conflict, and building trust far outweigh the effort required.

Teaching involves lots of talking. We introduce new concepts and skills, provide guidance and support, offer feedback and direction—all of which require verbal cues and interactions. It is also true that what we say, the words we choose, and the timing of our communication matter.

Unfortunately, over time, our speech can fall into patterns that feel natural, but we may give little thought to the messages they carry. They may be phrases and statements that we heard from our teachers, or they may just seem useful in the moment.  Nevertheless, what we say can have a greater impact than we realize. Let’s examine seven common teacher statements that can shut down engagement and undermine learning.

We don’t have time for questions.

We might be reluctant to interrupt a planned lesson or the flow of an ongoing explanation. However, questions are indicators of curiosity, confusion, and interest in learning. Ignoring or refusing questions risks stifling curiosity, deepening confusion, and fostering disengagement. Whenever practical, we need to take questions as they surface. If the answer to a question can wait, we might invite the student to hold the question and promise to address it at the conclusion of the current activity. Or we might signal that an opportunity for questions is coming soon and ask students to jot down their questions so they are captured and can be addressed.

I just explained this.

This statement may be correct, but if students were not listening, couldn’t hear us, or the explanation was not clear to them, they won’t be able to use our explanation to move their learning forward. Rather than pointing out that an explanation has been given, we might focus on what students did not hear or understand. Checking for understanding is likely to be more supportive of learning than focusing on what students should have heard and understood. 

You need to try harder.

The amount of effort a student is giving may be inadequate to support development of the intended learning. However, effort is only one contributor to learning success. Focusing on effort alone can leave students feeling unable to succeed and with nowhere to turn. Good strategy, deep reflection, sense making, and effective use of resources also are crucial to learning growth. Balancing effort with other contributing elements can give students multiple places to find success.

This should be easy.

The fact is that what may seem easy to us or even for some other students may not be easy for all students. Declaring that a learning task should be easy risks discouraging or undermining the confidence of students for whom the new concept or skill requires struggle. The implication of the statement is that if the learning task is not easy, it is the students’ fault, or that the student is not a good learner.

You should already know this.

It may be true that we have already taught students what they need to know to be successful with a current learning challenge. However, our teaching is not the same as student learning and recall. Our verbal observation of what may be obvious suggests that the problem lies with the student, when the cause may be shared or at least more complicated. Rather than lamenting what students do not know or do not recall, our time will be better spent, and students will be better served by refreshing, reviewing, or reteaching what students need to know to be successful. 

You are so smart.

On the surface, praising a student’s intelligence may seem like a good confidence builder. Yet, the statement implies that the student was successful because of his or her intelligence alone. Unfortunately, intelligence by itself can only take learning so far. Without good strategies and effective effort, students can encounter challenges for which their intelligence alone is no match. Consequently, students may give up, believing they are not smart enough to go any further. Alternatively, they may avoid learning challenges that risk revealing that they are not as intelligent as we assume.

Just follow these steps.

Following dictated steps might lead to a correct answer, but it does not necessarily lead to learning. Not knowing why or understanding the relationship between actions and outcomes can leave students dependent on remembering the steps to take, not why the steps are important or how they lead to a correct answer. Further, this admonition suggests that there is a single way of solving a problem or finding an answer, while in most situations multiple paths can lead to success.   

We have much to say to students and they have much to learn from us. It is worth the effort to examine the common phrases we use and the exhortations we depend on to urge students to learn. We need to lift students up and focus their attention on where it will make the greatest difference. Consequently, we need to choose our words carefully.

We face endless competition for our time. Whether teacher or administrator, we can spend our days assessing, reacting, and managing what is happening around us. Our time can be filled with responding to questions, issues, and circumstances. While these are important aspects of our professional lives, they can leave us preoccupied with surface issues. They distract us from reflecting, sense making, and planning while sapping our creativity.

For most of us, this pattern is not satisfactory and may not be sustainable. We seek greater control, more opportunities to shape and create, and greater impact from our efforts. Our challenge is to move from being reactive to proactive, and from routinely reapplying past behavior to designing new, more creative and effective actions.

For teachers, this can mean having time to think deeply about reoccurring classroom management challenges, ways to add creativity to lesson designs, building better rubrics, and planning beyond the next few days. For principals and other administrators, focus time might mean stepping back to analyze patterns of student behavior, making the case for and building commitment to a new initiative, or planning the best approach to a difficult conversation. Of course, these lists could go on.

Fortunately, the answer may be less daunting, energy draining, and time consuming than we think. Many professionals, inside education and beyond, have found the practice of creating and engaging in focus time to be an effective—even game changing practice.

Focus time can help us to step back from urgent tasks and reacting to our environment while spending high value time thinking, reflecting, and planning. We might think of focus time as the next level of time management. Instead of managing minutes, we are managing mental energy. Consistent practice of focus time can help us to engage in greater depth of thinking, create clearer priorities, and increase our productivity. If this shift sounds as though it might be helpful to you, here are some guidelines to consider:

• Commit to focus time. The good news is that focus time does not have to be lengthy. In fact, as little as 10-20 minutes can produce amazing results once we have established a structure and routine to shift our attention and ready our brains to engage.
• Find time that can be protected. For some people, the first half-hour of the day before students and other staff arrive works best. For others, the end of the day is better. Teachers might designate a portion of prep time for deep planning. Principals might choose a block of time immediately after school starts when most everyone is occupied with getting the day underway or find another time of the day when interruptions can be minimized.
• Identify potential focus topics. We might keep a list of ideas, challenges, and issues that would benefit from deeper thinking and more creative and effective approaches. Once we think of a potential topic, our brain will continue to work on the issue, often surfacing additional observations and insights for reflection and consideration.
• Create a routine. To the extent possible, clear unrelated materials from workspace, close email, and silence phones and watches. Let go of any mental distractions and focus on a single goal for the session.
• Arrange access to helpful resources. Depending on the topic of your focus time, you might have notes you made in preparation for your session, data on recent trends or incidents, previous lesson plans, ideas from colleagues, or other artifacts.
• Capture ideas and thoughts. Allow yourself to reflect, explore, and ideate. Avoid placing constraints on possibilities at this point. Jot notes to retain insights and possibilities.
• Make a list of next steps. We may need to consult a colleague for more information. We may need to work out additional details and arrange schedules. We may even need to return to the topic for more focus after working out aspects and determining implications.
• Protect focus time. Resist letting go of the time you designate, despite competing demands. Focus time is most effective when practiced consistently and frequently. Over time, our brains will recognize the routine and make the time even more productive.
• Share and celebrate results. Share new insights and ideas with colleagues. Celebrate small wins and productive outcomes from focus time. Consider keeping a log of new ideas and creative approaches discovered through this practice. Paying attention to results can be a great stimulus to continue protecting and engaging in focus time.

Focus time can be a great way to shift our minds toward creativity and productivity. It can also be a great reminder that we have much to contribute. Try implementing focus time into your day and see what it can do for you.

Leadership is challenging and complex work. Easy answers and obvious solutions can be handled by almost anyone. However, when issues involve complexity, demand insight, and clear thinking, they are more likely to land in the laps of leaders. While we may have more experience than some, we do not have access to an endless supply of answers to difficult questions or solutions to every challenging problem.

Nevertheless, we can tap strategies and approaches that strengthen our thinking, help us to see options and alternatives that others may miss, and uncover solutions that otherwise might be overlooked. These leadership tools can help us to focus our thinking, flex our perspectives, and expand our search for promising options. Here are five experience-tested strategies to consider and apply when answers are not obvious and deeper thought and reflection are required.

Perspective taking.

The observation may seem obvious, but every complex situation, significant conflict, and negotiation has multiple sides and involves multiple perspectives. Unfortunately, we can become trapped in efforts to strengthen our position and improve our arguments rather than tapping the often more powerful and effective approach of understanding how the other party views the situation. More power and persuasion may make us feel better. Yet, grasping the perspective and understanding the emotional investment others bring to the circumstance can uncover options and areas of agreement that can lead to better and longer lasting solutions.

Slow looking.

Adapted from the art world, slow looking involves taking time to observe details that may not be immediately visible, stepping back to see a larger image, and shifting perspectives to observe from varying angles. We can use this approach when confronting complex situations, attempting to understand other’s intentions, and examining our reaction to what we are hearing or experiencing. When we slow down our thinking and focus on relationships, motivations, and interactions, we often can deepen our understanding and discover options and implications we might otherwise overlook.

Deep thinking.

Quick thinking has its place. However, finding answers to more difficult and complex problems requires time and focus. Discovering the best course of action is more likely to result from reflecting, examining, and questioning than seizing on the first option to surface. By setting aside time to delve beyond our immediate reactions, probe our initial emotions, and quiet our minds we can open ourselves to new insights, tap our creativity, expand our empathy, and discover novel ideas and uncover helpful options. While deep thinking requires some time commitment, it can be an effective time saver and solution generator if we practice it regularly. 

Structured reflection.

Replaying experiences and reviewing our thoughts and actions can support emotional release and generate self-justifications, but they are of little value unless they create greater clarity and lead to new insights and improved future actions. Fortunately, a simple reflection structure adapted from medical practice can provide a useful path that creates better understanding and leads to informed action. The process is driven by three questions. The first question is “What?” What happened? What did I think and feel? What else did I observe? The second question: “So what?” Probes for significance. What were the consequences? Why was the experience important? Is this something I need to correct or from which I need to learn? The final question is “What next?” This question invites action. What adjustments will we make in the future? Is there repair I need to make now? What learning will I apply when I have a similar experience in the future?

Brain breaks.

We know the value of having students take frequent breaks while engaging in challenging learning tasks. Even though active instruction or focused learning efforts cease, the brain continues to process, sequence, interpret, and store what students are learning. It happens that brain breaks are not just for young learners. When we attempt to take in large amounts of information, engage in complex problem solving, and sort through and seek the best options, taking brief breaks can give our brains time to absorb and organize information. A brief walk, stretch, or few moments of quiet time can make a significant difference in our mental processing and memory storage. Regular breaks can refresh our energy, but they can also improve our mental capacity.

Obviously, not every one of these thinking strategies apply to every problem or challenge we face. However, having access to an array of thinking approaches and strategies we can tap can give us useful options from which to choose. Also, these thinking tools are not just for leaders or confined to leadership challenges. They can be helpful when confronting almost any life circumstance that calls for more than preset processes and knee-jerk reactions.

We live in a world that values speed, seeks easy answers, and accepts superficial thinking. Too often, we find ourselves scanning, skimming, and scrolling rather than listening, reflecting, and contemplating. We can feel as though we are on a treadmill of see, react, and act, rather than observe, reflect, discover, choose, plan, and engage. The latter requires taking time to think deeply and act purposefully.

Thinking is our most valuable skill. It is what makes us uniquely human. Deep thinking offers benefits that are both intellectual and personal. Deep thinking ignites creativity, builds empathy and self-awareness, and strengthens decision-making. Deep thinking can result in new insights, novel ideas, and useful solutions. It can help us to break out of unproductive cycles of thought and behavior. Deep thinking rewards patience and renews energy and strengthens and lengthens our ability to focus.

Our world, unfortunately, too often encourages surface engagement rather than deep thinking. It prioritizes emotional reaction over reasoning, stimulation over stillness, efficiency over substance, and comfort over complexity. These are formidable forces that push against deliberate, patient, deep thinking.

Admittedly, deep thinking is not always easy. Deep thinking requires us to protect time to engage, it calls for focus and quieting our minds, and for allowing ourselves to be curious. Deep thinking is a skill and discipline. Deep thinking calls for us to slow down and stay with questions. It can be awkward at first, but with practice it becomes a reinforcing and rewarding experience.

So, what are some strategies we can employ to build our skill and practice deep thinking? Here are seven strategies to get started:

• Set aside time specifically to think. As little as 10-15 minutes can be a good start. As we practice thinking, we can build toward longer thinking periods. However, we need quiet and to be free from screens, tasks, and other distractions.
• Select a focus. We might consider a question that has been on our minds, a problem we are trying to solve, or an idea that needs further development.
• Practice “slow looking.” We might consider an issue from different perspectives. How might someone else see the situation? Reflect on the “big picture” and follow by focusing on details. We can resist quick answers and stay with questions as long as we are able.
• Be patient with complexity, ambiguity, and uncertainty. New insights and ideas often surface from what may not be clear and obvious. Being curious and allowing our thinking to explore possibilities can uncover important elements and options that otherwise would go unnoticed and ignored.
• Make thinking a habit. Occasional periods of thinking can be useful, but making deep thinking a regular part of daily or weekly routines can lead to bigger breakthroughs, more and better ideas, and greater self-awareness and confidence.
• Keep a thinking log. Make notes of ideas, possibilities, questions, and issues about which you want to think more deeply. Life moves quickly. We need to capture what we can as it happens so that we can reflect and consider options and implications with care and focus.
• Write about your thinking. Writing can be a powerful tool to organize, explore, and memorialize our thinking. Keeping a journal might be useful. Even a blog—regardless of whether it is published—can be a helpful way to create purpose and value in your thinking.

Deep thinking asks us to prioritize our time, be curious, and practice courage. The benefits can be powerful as we discover new insights about ourselves, our work, and our world. We become more comfortable with uncertainty, more confident in our ability to understand and influence our environment, and more empathetic toward others in our lives.

As we turn the page to a new month and calendar year, now is a good time to step back and consider what lies ahead and what we want our students to achieve. How can we have the greatest impact on learning? Where might we make some changes? What holds the greatest potential to lift the learning performance of our students?

Of course, there are many options and possibilities to consider. However, there is a relatively short list of high impact actions we can take that can make an outsized difference. In fact, just five key elements can combine to accelerate student learning, build higher levels of achievement, and make learning more meaningful.

The good news is that each of these elements are within our control. But they need to become part of our relationship and engagement with students every day. We might think of these five elements as ingredients in a recipe for success in the second half of the year— and beyond.

Confidence in student potential

Students rarely perform at levels beyond what we believe they can. Students feel when we think that they can do better than they show and are quick to sense when we believe that they lack the potential to succeed. What we believe about our students matters—a lot. Multiple studies have shown that what teachers believe about the potential of their students can be a major predictor of their achievement. Now is a good time to revisit what we believe about our students’ potential for success and build our confidence on their behalf.

High expectations

Students typically rise to the level of our expectations. When we hold high expectations, students are more likely to strive to meet them. High expectations are a powerful way to communicate to students that we believe in their potential. On the other hand, having low expectations almost always results in low achievement. It is a message to students that we do not believe in their potential. Having high expectations that students may not quite meet is far preferable than low expectations that students can easily satisfy.

Timely support

Our belief in the potential of our students and holding high expectations for their learning are heavily dependent on students experiencing timely, useful support. Telling students that we believe in their potential and have high expectations holds little meaning and value if we are not present and ready to guide, coach, nudge, intervene, and teach when they need it.  

Relevant and purposeful learning

Confidence, expectations, and support have the greatest impact when what we ask students to learn seems relevant to their lives and purposeful enough to invest their time and energy. Of course, not everything we ask students to learn may seem immediately relevant or serve a purpose that is obvious to them. However, when we help students to see connections to what they already know and point out life applications where they exist, we can build credibility to carry through when connections and relevance are less immediate. Meanwhile, we can coach students to set and track learning goals. The presence of meaningful goals and the ability to see progress often can be a useful substitute for immediate life relevance.

Safe space to take learning risks

Learning that is challenging and worthwhile almost always involves mistakes and errors. We can encourage students to press at the edges of what they know and feel safe that making mistakes while learning will be accepted—even celebrated as evidence of new and challenging learning efforts. We also can encourage students to use what they learn to explore new questions and discover new learning on their own. The autonomy to explore new learning without fear of embarrassment and criticism when they fail can be a powerful learning motivator.

Of course, the impact of these elements is even greater when we form strong, positive relationships with our students, help them feel as though they fit in and belong, and they are valued beyond the grades and test scores they achieve.

What teachers believe about the commitment and capacity of students to learn is among the most powerful predictors of student success. All students do better when they believe their teachers are committed to their success and see them as having learning potential and being capable of succeeding. However, students who have a history of struggle and need more time and support to succeed are often even more sensitive to how they are seen by their teacher—and the impact is even greater.

The starting point for finding success with students is to be convinced that they can learn and we have the capacity to make their success possible. When we are confident in and committed to the success of our students, we communicate this information in myriad ways, many of which we do not consciously choose. The same is true when we lack confidence in the potential of students.

Meanwhile, students are hyper attuned to the signals and signs that reveal what their teachers believe about and expect from them. Virtually every interaction is mined for meaning and may be internalized in ways that influence student behavior and commitment.

We do not want to believe that we tell students that we do not see them as having high potential or that they are not likely to succeed in our class. For the most part, we probably do not explicitly convey such a message. Yet, buried within interactions with students can be disheartening and damaging messages that get in the way of reaching all students. Here are seven common circumstances in which positive and negative messages often are sent.

Opportunities to contribute. Without care and attention, teachers can find themselves calling on students whom they believe are likely to have answers and will be quick to respond. Teachers may feel pressure to keep the lesson moving and favor efficiency over equitable opportunities to respond. Some students may be relieved not to be “put on the spot,” but they also feel a lack of confidence in their capability.

How much time students are given to respond. When teachers believe that a student can provide a valid response to a question, an insight, or useful thought, they tend to give them more time and encouragement than might be offered to a student not expected to have an answer or idea to contribute. Yet, with more time and support, students who may not often contribute may have something worthwhile to offer. Students who might struggle or need more time may feel relieved to be “let off the hook,” but they also are likely see it as a message about their potential.  

Nonverbal behavior during interactions. When students who are assumed to be capable learners have a comment or question, they are more likely to experience voice tones, facial expressions, and other nonverbal behaviors that are encouraging, supportive, and patient. Meanwhile, students who do not enjoy this perception are more likely to experience interactions that convey less empathy, lack of patience, and lower levels of interest.

Level and extensiveness of feedback. When teachers believe students are highly capable of understanding, accepting, and using feedback, they are more likely to take additional time, provide more detailed guidance, and offer follow-up. On the other hand, students who have a history of struggle often are given more superficial and directive feedback and managed check-in on their progress. Students notice the difference and interpret the behavior as an assessment of their potential.

Who is blamed for confusion. When students who are perceived as capable are confused, teachers are more likely to assume that they did not provide a clear explanation, adequate examples, or sufficient directions. Conversely, confusion and questions from students assumed to be less capable can be met with exhortations to pay better attention, listen more carefully, and follow the examples of other students.   

Interpretation of the meaning of mistakes. When students who are perceived as capable make mistakes the interpretation is more likely to be that they need more time, opportunities, and guidance to succeed. On the other hand, students who do not enjoy such perceptions can be seen as not giving adequate effort, being careless, or lacking learning skills. 

Amount of flexibility. Students who are seen as capable learners also can be given greater flexibility and more second chances when they ask for consideration. Their requests are more likely to be seen as based on legitimate needs. Conversely, students who are perceived as less capable might be assumed to have not been responsible, as giving inadequate effort, and being disorganized and thus are less worthy of special consideration.

Fortunately, with some thought and attention, we can resist falling into patterns of interaction with students that convey negative messages that we do not intend and do not reflect what we believe about our students and their potential.

This is a time when we often consider making resolutions for the coming year. These resolutions are aspirational, reflecting our hopes and intentions for the months ahead. Unfortunately, they are also often short-lived. Resolutions can require new skills, significant life changes, and relationship adjustments. They may even mean giving up things with which we are familiar and enjoy. Consequently, within the first month or two of the new year, most resolutions have gone by the wayside.

Nevertheless, there may be changes to make and goals to achieve in the coming year that are worth our time and effort. The key is to choose carefully, focus on what can help us make progress towards who we want to be, and be ready to follow through. Of course, it helps if our resolutions do not require significant new commitments of time, new skills, or abandonment of long practiced habits.

If this situation sounds familiar, you have good news. There are meaningful resolutions you can make that do not come with significant new time commitments but pay big dividends. They do not require new skills or new habits that would be difficult to sustain. Equally important, these resolutions offer significant and sustained benefits when practiced regularly. Consider these five options that you can start today and enjoy their benefits now and throughout the new year.

Resolution #1: I will be curious.

Curiosity is an attitude as much as a behavior. Being curious positions us to pay attention, ask questions, and explore what may be new or unique. Remaining curious can be a powerful way to help us to better understand and evaluate new ideas we encounter. Curiosity can help us build relationships with others. Curiosity can even be an effective strategy for resolving conflicts we encounter.  It can also be the door to continuous learning and growth.

Resolution #2: I will assume positive intentions.

When something unfortunate happens, we observe negative behavior, or are confused by what someone says, we have a choice to make. We might assume that someone intended to create a problem, behave badly, or their words were intended to hurt. Alternatively, we can assume that there may be more to the situation than we know and there is a legitimate reason for what someone said or did. The choice may matter more than we realize. When we assume negative intentions, we search for responsibility and blame. The result too often is unproductive, negative, and hurtful. When we learn the full story, we may even find ourselves apologizing for what we assumed. Assuming positive intentions, on the other hand, allows us to explore and gain understanding before deciding what to think and how to respond. Assuming positive intentions builds trust and promotes understanding—two helpful connections for the coming year.

Resolution #3: I will notice and celebrate small wins.

Small wins happen around us more often than we might realize—unless we are paying attention. In the aftermath of a resolved problem, a settled conflict, or completed task, we might quickly turn to the next issue or challenge and move on. Yet, small wins can be the fuel that keeps our energy flowing and our spirits high. Further, when we notice and celebrate small wins, they can grow and become much larger wins. Small wins can be momentum builders and confidence reinforcers. They are worth noticing and celebrating.

Resolution #4: I will be grateful.

Much like noticing and celebrating small wins, paying attention to what we should be grateful for and appreciating people who are important to us can be a powerful counterweight to what might otherwise drag us down. Incorporating gratitude into daily or weekly journaling, reflecting as we begin or end the day, or purposefully sharing gratitude in our conversations can make a surprisingly positive difference in our attitude and how we experience life. Reflecting on what is good in our lives and being thankful for people who support and love us does not have to be time consuming, but it can be life renewing.

Resolution #5: I will practice work-life balance.

There is almost always more work that could be done. We might do more planning. We might rework or tweak a project, or maybe just worry about a colleague or student. The list could go on. Finding work-life balance can become more of an art than science. But placing reasonable boundaries around work hours, setting priorities, taking regular breaks, and protecting time for family, recreation, and other personal activities can be the key to sustaining our energy, remaining motivated, and maintaining our sanity.

While these resolutions do not ask us to change major elements of our lives, they yield the greatest results when practiced regularly. With just a few weeks of practice, they can shift how we engage with others, shape our attitudes, and improve how we experience life.