End-of-Summer Regrets to Prevent Now
It happens every year. We focus on finishing this year, imagine a long summer ahead, and yet, August arrives sooner than we expect. Then, when summer comes to an end, we are bombarded with some familiar thoughts: I meant to do this… I should have taken care of that… How did the summer fly by?
We might look back and ask ourselves why we didn’t finish some tasks, take care of some issues, wrap up some projects, and do a better job of planning the summer. Fortunately, now is the time to address many of those issues and actions, preparing us for a summer with more intention, reflection, and renewal—and free of some regrets.
The challenge is to use the time we have as we finish the year to also take a few actions to get ready for the summer we desire and the fall we anticipate. Here are five common end-of-summer regrets and how we can prevent them by what we choose to do now.
I failed to reach closure on the past year.
This may have been a difficult year. Conflicts may linger, some hurts have not yet healed, and other unfinished interpersonal business may need attention. A challenging class may have tested our skills and our patience. Before leaving for the summer, we may need to reach out to a colleague to repair a relationship, let go of some hurts and regrets that have distracted us, and forgive ourselves for times we fell short and did not do our best work. Taking time to repair what we can and let go of what we cannot fix can help us to make the transition and get ready to refocus for the summer.
I never fully unplugged and renewed.
Many educators will spend their summer engaged in professional work either related to teaching or not. They may teach summer school, work on curriculum development, or engage in professional development or formal coursework, or they may work other part- or full-time jobs. Consequently, truly unplugging can be a challenge. Nevertheless, we can still plan some emotional and physical get-away activities. Mini-vacations, regular hikes, day trips to favorite places, and other enjoyable, non-school-related activities can offer mental breaks and opportunities to gain separation and renew our spirits. Recovery from the year can involve both emotional renewal and physical separation.
I failed to get organized digitally and physically.
The pace of the school year and the acceleration that accompanies the lead-up to the end can leave little time to organize and manage digital files, emails, and other technology tools. Similarly, we may feel pressed and neglect to keep physical materials and resources in top shape. We might be tempted to leave these organizing tasks until later in the summer or when we return in the fall. However, competition for our time and attention will be fierce in the days leading up to the start of school; there will be enough to organize and prepare for that school year without dealing with leftovers from this one. A few hours spent now to organize our digital and physical space can make a big difference in the fall when other matters demand our attention.
I planned to do some summer learning, but I never got around to it.
Summer may seem to stretch well into the horizon, but experience has taught us that it will go quickly. Taking some time now to decide what we want to learn, where we can engage in the learning we seek, and when we will do it can help us organize our summer schedule and ensure we gain the learning we need. Enrolling in a course, workshop, or other learning opportunity, placing dates on the calendar, and making other preparatory arrangements now can prevent us from feeling this regret when the end of the summer arrives.
I avoided thinking about and planning for next year, and now I feel overwhelmed.
Unplugging for the summer is important, but unplugging does not have to mean neglecting necessary planning and arrangements for next year. In fact, time spent now, while recollections from the past year are still fresh and our aspirations for next year are still forming, can go a long way in charting a general course for the year ahead. Having a sense for what we want to accomplish and taking a few initial steps can relieve some pressure, give us a place to start, and launch next year with greater confidence and direction.
Regrets are not pleasant, especially when what caused them could have been prevented. Fortunately, many common regrets about the end of the summer can be prevented by what we choose to do now. A little planning and a few hours of effort can make a big difference in how we feel and what we face when it is time to return in the fall.