Not All Praise is Equal: Three Types to Choose and Use
Praise can be an effective way to compliment students, reinforce their behavior, and motivate them to do even better. However, not all types of praise are the same or equal. In fact, using certain types of praise can work against our goal of having students accept and use our praise to improve.
We might think of praise as falling into three categories: personal praise, effort-based praise, and behavior-specific praise. Each type of praise can play a role in relationships, but they are not all equally effective in motivating behavior. Let’s examine the types of praise we might choose to employ and how each might be perceived and utilized by students.
Personal praise is most common in general conversation. We might say things like, “You are so talented.” “You are a natural athlete.” Or “You are so good at math.” Our words may be true, and we may feel good having said them. What we say can also feel good to the student and temporarily build their confidence, but this type of praise is not a powerful motivator. In fact, personal praise is the least powerful type of praise. Personal praise typically focuses on things that come easily to students, such as talents, skills, and characteristics. These characteristics may be nice to have, but students are likely to see them as inherent qualities over which they have little control, and they may not be enough when the student faces the next task or challenge. Consequently, students may be reluctant to take future risks or persist in the face of difficult challenges, feeling that what we are praising is outside of their control and may not be enough to propel them to succeed.
The second type of praise is effort-based praise. We might use words like, “I can see how much effort you are putting into this task.” “You did not give up even though the work was hard.” Or “Your practice is making a big difference.” This type of praise focuses on strategies the student is using, the persistence they are demonstrating, and the improvement they are showing. Effort-based praise is more powerful because it emphasizes elements within the student’s control. It highlights investment of energy, effort, and focus, all of which students can manage. Praise for effort encourages students to continue and even increase their energy and effort investment. However, we need to be careful not to communicate that effort alone will always be enough or students may eventually give up without trying different approaches or searching for better tools and strategies.
A third category of praise is behavior-specific praise. When giving this type of praise we might say, “You stayed calm even though you were clearly frustrated.” “You paid close attention to details and avoided mistakes.” Or “You were organized and prepared and it showed.” Like effort-based praise, behavior-specific praise focuses on elements and actions that students can control. The power of this type of praise lies in its clarity and preciseness. It clarifies what is expected and reinforces its importance. Behavior-specific praise also reinforces actions that are repeatable. Further, since the focus is on what students have done correctly, they are better able to replicate and improve their work. They hear not just that they have done well, they have information to use going forward.
When choosing to use praise as a strategy to reinforce and stimulate behavior, there are several observations and considerations that warrant our attention:
- Combining effort-based and behavior-specific praise is most the powerful form of praise.
- Praise often needs to be paired with feedback to help students see their current state of progress, what has worked, and what might be good next steps.
- Overuse of praise can reduce intrinsic motivation and lead to over dependence on the approval of others.
- Praise students as soon as possible after they demonstrate the behavior to be reinforced.
- Insincerity when giving praise can easily backfire as many students are especially sensitive to attempts to manipulate.
- Avoid making comparisons to other students when giving praise.
In summary, we might choose to give students personal praise when an observation or compliment is all that we intend and there is no expectation for improvement. On the other hand, when we want students to understand what they have done well and how to do even better, effort-based and behavior specific praise are better options.