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Meetings Are Expensive—Make Them Worth the Effort

Leadership and Change Management

Meetings Are Expensive—Make Them Worth the Effort

Administrators, support staff, teachers, and other personnel spend countless hours each year in meetings. We meet to plan and review policies and programs, discuss student issues and services, design curricula, collaborate on instructional issues, engage in professional learning, and accomplish a variety of other purposes. Yet how often do we leave these meetings feeling that the time was truly well spent? Too many meetings produce polite conversation, little clarity, and minimal forward motion.  

The fact is that time is a precious resource, and we need to protect and use it well. Time spent in meetings needs to yield results that reflect the investment they represent. The question is: How can we structure and conduct meetings to produce outcomes that make them worthwhile and to accomplish what may be difficult or impossible if done through other means? 

Fortunately, there are several relatively simple and straightforward strategies we can employ to increase the value of meetings and ensure worthy outcomes. Here are five characteristics that most often lead to productive, satisfying team meetings.  

The meeting’s purpose is clear, shared, and worthy. Attendees understand whether they will be asked to plan, problem solve, decide, or engage in another process. They know what is expected of them and what success will look like. Further, they understand that the meeting will address an issue or problem that is meaningful and worth addressing. Consequently, attendees arrive with shared expectations and are ready to engage.  

Psychological safety is accompanied by expectations for accountability and engagement in intellectual challenge. Psychological safety can lead people to feel comfortable, but comfort alone does not lead to creativity and productivity. Shared norms of respect, trust, and the assumption of positive intentions provide a context for honest conversation. Shared accountability encourages all participants to contribute meaningfully. A focus on a worthy problem, significant challenge, or interesting idea invites cognitive engagement and can stimulate creativity. 

Diversity of perspective and opinion is valued, encouraged, and expected. Disagreement and dialogue often surface ideas, implications, and options that can be overlooked when agreement is immediate and unchallenged. Diversity of thought helps expose false and unhelpful assumptions and test the implications and potential of options. When agreement seems to emerge from the outset of the discussion, it can be useful to designate one of the meeting participants to challenge the group’s thinking and even propose alternatives for consideration.  

Power balances are recognized and managed. When people who are perceived as leaders or with authority speak first, other meeting members are more likely to agree, not speak, or wait until after the meeting to disagree privately Instead, formal leaders might serve as clarifiers, questioners, and evidence seekers throughout discussions. When leaders speak last, they have the benefit of having heard the discussion and evaluated information, evidence, and options. Consequently, their participation can serve to summarize and confirm what has been discussed as they weigh in on outcomes.  

Follow-up action items and next steps are clear, worthwhile, time-bound, and assigned. Stimulating discussions and important decisions can be compromised or lost without appropriate follow-up. The meeting wrap-up should include a list of what has been decided, who will be responsible for any next steps or supporting actions, when actions will be taken, and how progress will be measured and communicated. Effective meeting closure can prevent the need to repeat key discussions, revisit past decisions, and address uncertainty about the meeting's impact. Clear task assignments can also create ownership of what happens next.  

To ensure a meeting is worthwhile and productive, we might ask attendees to share a brief reflection. Rate each item on a 1-5 scale: 

  • Was the purpose of the meeting clear and worthwhile? 

  • Did the meeting feature psychological safety and intellectual challenge? 

  • Did the meeting include diverse perspectives and opinions as well as the testing of assumptions and options? 

  • Did everyone participate, and was power balanced throughout discussions? 

  • Did we leave knowing what will happen next, by whom, and when? 

Any items receiving a score of less than 4 signals the need for review and improvement.  

Meetings are expensive, and they should serve as valuable time to accomplish work that is best done in a group context. In short, meetings are important; they are worth doing well. If you have any doubts about whether a meeting was worth it, ask yourself this question: Could that have been an email?

3 Response Options When Students Ask for Help: Why Our Choice Matters

Relationships and Connections

3 Response Options When Students Ask for Help: Why Our Choice Matters

When students come to us with a heavy problem or challenging circumstance, we need to understand and consider what the student wants and needs before choosing how to respond. Is this a situation in which the student just needs us to understand and try to relate to what they face? Does the student face a circumstance in which they are seeking our caring and assistance? Or might this be a situation in which the student needs our active support on their behalf? In short, do they need to feel our empathy? Are they in need of our compassion? Or do they need our advocacy? 

We might think that the necessary type of response should be obvious. Yet there is often more at stake than is immediately clear. Further, the way in which we choose to respond can have larger impacts on our relationship with the student and their growth and well-being than we might initially perceive. Let’s examine these three emotional and behavioral connectors, when they are best employed, and common mistakes associated with them.  

Empathy communicates our understanding of how the student is feeling. Our goal with this approach is to build trust and make a connection. Empathy is communicated through a combination of active listening and behavioral observation. Beyond seeking to understand what students say, their behavior can offer clues to deepen our understanding, and inconsistencies between what a student says and their nonverbal behavior can be a clue that something more is going on. 

Empathy provides assurance that we hear and care. However, it does not necessarily extend to intervention or acting on behalf of the student. In fact, while a student may seek our empathy, they may resist our direct involvement in the situation they face or what they are experiencing. We need to be cautious about assuming that a student coming to us with a problem implies that they want our advice, involvement, or for us to assume control of the situation. A good way to avoid such a misstep is to ask the student what they would like from us before making any assumptions or taking any action. 

Compassion goes beyond listening and understanding and communicates our active caring and desire to help. Our goal is to offer our emotional support and respond to the circumstance the student faces. However, we may need to begin by practicing empathy to gain an understanding of the situation and what is troubling the student. We might demonstrate compassion by providing active support or forgiveness, or by removing barriers or providing flexibility where needed. We might also show compassion by occasionally checking in on or following up with students to understand if something more is needed and how they are doing.

Of course, the nature and extent of our compassion also rest on our perspective on the situation. We want to provide support and assistance when needed, but we also need to avoid undermining the student’s application of life skills such as planning, decision making, and accepting consequences. We might need to moderate our compassion in pursuit of helping the student to build resilience and manage life’s challenges. 

Advocacy takes the next step of becoming actively involved on behalf of the student. Advocacy rests on understanding gained through empathy and demonstrates our compassion, but it goes farther than empathy and compassion to include action on behalf of the student. Our goal is to exercise our voice, access, and power to make a difference where the student cannot. We may approach someone with decision-making authority to speak on behalf of the student. We might connect the student with resources or personnel who can help. Or we might press for changes in policies and rules that adversely affect the student or students.

However, we need to be careful not to have our advocacy undermine the agency and confidence of students to advocate for themselves. We can become so emotionally involved and committed that we confuse whose needs we are attempting to meet. Our advocacy is most effective when it achieves the outcome needed while also involving the student and building their skills to advocate for themselves.   

Of course, the lines between and among empathy, compassion, and advocacy are often blurred. We may begin with empathy that grows into compassion. Ultimately, we may choose to advocate. Depending on the circumstance, the needs of the student, and our relationship with them, any or all these responses may be appropriate. Regardless, we want students to feel seen, heard, supported, and championed when they need it.  

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