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Teach Students to Use the Universal Tool for Learning: Reflective Thinking

In Your Corner, Student Learning

Teach Students to Use the Universal Tool for Learning: Reflective Thinking

“By three methods we learn: first, by reflection, which is noblest; second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is bitterest.” —Confucius

The practice of reflection is unique in that it is applicable to any learning context and with any content or skill. It opens the door to greater insight and deeper understanding. It is equally valuable for the novice learner and most experienced leader.

Reflective thinking helps students to analyze and make sense of what they hear and experience. It can assist them to make connections to prior learning so that they can gain a deeper understanding as they sequence, organize, and catalogue what they learn. Consequently, they become more active learners and are better able to retain what they learn.

Additionally, reflection increases self-awareness, helping students to assess their strengths and areas of weaknesses. Reflection can assist students to develop and test strategies to improve their learning; as a result, they become more critical thinkers and confident learners.

Further, reflection moves new content and skills from being simply what others have provided to learning that students can own. The process of reflective thinking can help students integrate new learning with current skills and insights, making them better able to learn from experience and adapt to new challenges.

The strategies we can use to encourage and coach students to become better reflective thinkers combine several familiar activities with some that are less well known and practiced. Here are nine activities that we can tap to build our students’ reflective thinking skills and habits:

  • Reflection prompts and opportunities: We can present students with questions such as, “What did I learn today that I did not know when I woke up this morning?” and “How does what I learned today connect with something I already knew?” As your students become comfortable asking themselves these questions, you can add questions that fit your particular context and students.
  • Journaling and blogging: Writing by its nature is a reflective process. Intentionally organizing thoughts, sequencing events, and interpreting experiences are great ways to build understanding and clarify areas of confusion.
  • Small-group discussions: Activities such as “think-pair-share” can offer opportunities for students to describe their learning and share their reflections with peers. These can also be good opportunities for students to hear and consider the reflections of others.
  • Peer teaching: Peer teaching takes discussions with classmates to another level. When students teach each other what they have learned, they organize and explore their learning at a deeper and more complex level. In addition, they often receive more and better feedback on the clarity and completeness of what they share.  
  • Concept mapping: Creating graphic representations of new learning can help students to explore relationships—such as hierarchies, connections, and disconnections—among elements they already know and what they have just learned.
  • Creating pictures: Like concept maps, drawing pictures to represent and explain new learning gives students another way to capture their learning and reflect on its significance and implications. Picture drawing has also been shown to significantly increase students’ learning retention.
  • Goal setting and tracking: When students set goals, they are better able to focus, track their progress, and reflect on areas where they are making expected growth and where they may be struggling. Goal setting is also a great way to give students greater ownership of their learning.
  • Exit tickets: Well-designed exit ticket questions can encourage students to think about their learning struggles and victories. Exit tickets can nudge students to reflect on the strategies they employed, the effort they invested, and the resources they tapped to support their learning.
  • Modeling: Our thinking and the processes we use to reflect can provide powerful insights for students to adopt and adapt for their own use. We are the expert learner in the room, and there is much that students can learn from us about how and why we reflect.

Obviously, reflection is a powerful tool. It holds the promise of increasing real-time learning and extending learning retention. Meanwhile, we are helping students to build a skill and habit that will give them the power to chart their own learning journey.

Nine Actions for When Someone Pushes Your Buttons

In Your Corner, Relationships and Connections

Nine Actions for When Someone Pushes Your Buttons

We have all had the experience of having our proverbial buttons pushed. For some of us, it happens more often than for others. The trigger can be something someone says or does, a situation or problem we face, or even a painful or embarrassing memory that suddenly pops into our consciousness. What we experience may be the result of something unintentional or happenstance, or it may be purposeful action of someone to distract us or create a reaction.  

Occasionally, something completely new and unexpected is the culprit that pushes our reactive “button,” but more often, what we experience is part of a pattern or relates to a topic or situation that has bedeviled or greatly bothered us before. Of course, there are many stimuli that hold the potential to generate a negative or unsettling reaction. What is more important is that we understand and have strategies for managing situations in which we find ourselves becoming uncomfortable, angry, or otherwise off balance in response to what we hear or experience.  

The next time you feel your buttons being pushed, consider these strategies in response:  

  • Take a breath. Give yourself a few seconds to gain control of your emotions. Creating space between what is happening and your response can provide an opportunity to decide your best action, rather than “taking the bait.” 
  • Stay calm. Immediately pushing back or responding in kind can needlessly escalate the situation. Your composure positions you to choose what to do next rather than concede control to the other person or circumstance.  
  • Ask a question. A question can help to clarify the statement, question, or situation. Often what we initially interpret as negative, accusatory, or demeaning may not be what we assume. A clarifying question can also help us to reflect on a situation or offer the other person an opportunity to backtrack or clarify their intent. 
  • Acknowledge your feelings. Anger, confusion, or other reactive feelings are natural responses. However, being aware of how you are feeling, without judging, can help to frame a more measured and thoughtful response.  
  • Own your feelings. Use “I” statements to express how the statement or situation is affecting you. This way, you can resist placing blame or making accusations. Explaining and owning how you feel is an honest response and creates an opportunity to clarify intentions or revise a message. 
  • Reframe the situation. Rather than going with your initial interpretation, be curious about what was said or how the situation appears. Look for an opportunity to see the situation differently and create a more confident and comfortable path forward. What was intended is less important than the meaning you assign to what happened or was said. 
  • Look for solutions. If what stimulated your reaction was a memory or situation, consider how you might reduce its power and avoid reacting emotionally. These situations have meaning, and understanding their power can provide hints for managing the impact. If the stimulus is the words or actions of others, explore whether you can reach an agreement or understanding to avoid repetition, or at least establish boundaries regarding behavior that you find unacceptable.  
  • Consider whether to walk away. If the conversation becomes too heated or is becoming unproductive, the best strategy may be to create some distance, either by agreeing to drop the subject for now, or physically walking away for the moment and revisiting the conversation later.  
  • Decide what can be learned. Once the situation has passed and you can think calmly, reflect on what happened, why it mattered to you, and how you might engage differently in the future. Almost certainly, you will face similar challenges in the future. Learning what you can and planning how best to respond can be well-spent time.  

Having our buttons pushed is not typically a comfortable sensation. What someone says or does can lead us to feel disrespected or manipulated. When what grabs our attention is a situation or memory, we can feel caught and bewildered. Yet, all these situations carry messages for us to heed, learn from, and plan to manage in the future.  

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