May 09, 2025

A Dozen Ways to Share Appreciation with Colleagues

Last week was Teacher Appreciation Week, which often features special events, thank-you activities, notes written by students, and sometimes even parent expressions of gratitude. These gestures are important and can be meaningful ways to convey appreciation. It is good, after all, to have your work and contributions recognized.

However, the most meaningful expressions of appreciation often come from another source: our colleagues. The people we work with every day understand the stresses and strains of teaching better than others who may observe or benefit from our efforts. Appreciation from a colleague comes from a place of camaraderie, insight, and shared experience.

Now that Teacher Appreciation Week has passed, consider taking time to share your appreciation for the people you work with each day. Maybe that’s someone who helps you to be successful or who makes your days a little easier or brighter. It might be someone who makes important contributions to the shared work of the staff or who goes the extra mile to support students. Or maybe it’s someone who just needs to be appreciated and encouraged.

Honoring, recognizing, and appreciating colleagues does not have to be expensive or time consuming, and doing so can send powerful messages of respect and value. Equally important, these messages are made more meaningful coming from someone who truly understands the demands and challenges that define life as an educator.

Want some ideas? Here are a dozen appreciation-sharing ideas to stimulate your thinking. Not every idea is appropriate for every colleague, so think about what your colleagues will appreciate and find meaningful.

Share your smile. Smiles are powerful expressions, and multiple research studies have shown that smiles are actually contagious. Having someone smile and make eye contact with us signals recognition and respect. A friendly smile during a challenging day can be a powerful spirit lifter.
Ask how a colleague is doing and really listen. Too often, people inquire about others without real interest and then fail to listen to their response. Slowing down, asking sincerely, and listening carefully can send an authentic message about our caring and appreciation that person.
Invite a colleague to spend quality time together. Choosing to spend quality time with someone—whether at a campus activity or social event or just to visit—can send a powerful message of caring and appreciation about them as individuals.
Offer a sincere and specific compliment. Of course, the most direct way to share appreciation is to tell someone we appreciate them and why. Want more impact? Studies have shown that when we include enough detail to extend our message for as little as twenty seconds, it becomes even more powerful and memorable.
Write a note of appreciation. Handwritten communication is increasingly rare in today’s technology-dominated world. Sharing appreciation in writing not only demonstrates an investment of time and effort, but the note can also become an important keepsake or bulletin-board reminder for its recipient. They may refer back to it during times of doubt or insecurity. At the very least, it will have made them feel seen and valued.
Bring them a treat. Coffee, tea, a baked good, their favorite snack—thinking of someone as we pick up a beverage and/or treat and gifting them a boost of energy can be a great way to show appreciation and show that we pay attention to their likes and dislikes. It can also be a timely opportunity to start the day by checking in with a valued and respected colleague. Very few people are made unhappier by being given a treat!
Share a useful tip, helpful strategy, or needed resource. When we find an approach or strategy that works well, choosing to share it can communicate connection. Saving someone time or helping them to secure a needed resource can be a great way to show appreciation.
Volunteer to lighten a load. Offering to cover a duty assignment or class (where possible and appropriate, of course) and give a colleague a break can send a significant message of understanding and appreciation. You might be a significant member of a teacher’s support system or “village.” Offering to make additional copies or help set up for an activity can lighten a load at just the right time.
Ask to visit and learn from a class or activity. Share that you admire your colleague’s practice and want to learn from them. Of course, some teachers may be reluctant to have a colleague observe them, but even if they decline, your message will still likely be appreciated.
Give a public shout-out. Consider finding an opportunity at a staff or team meeting to publicly recognize and compliment a colleague. Not everyone appreciates public recognition, though, so if you are not certain of how the colleague might react, consider sharing your intent and ask for their approval. If they aren’t comfortable with the spotlight, then perhaps the following approach would be more appropriate.
Compliment a colleague to their principal or supervisor. Informing supervisors about a colleague's contributions and achievements shows appreciation and encourages them to recognize the deserving colleague too. Depending on your relationship with the colleague, you might let them know what you shared. Doing so can double the appreciation they feel.
Write an anonymous note to a colleague on behalf of the team or staff describing the difference they make. Again, highlighting what specifically the person does that makes a difference can provide an important lift. Coming from an anonymous source can make the message even more memorable and mysterious.

Though Teacher Appreciation Week has passed, these ideas and our support for each other are no less important or appreciated throughout the school year. In fact, these are actions that we can adopt as behaviors and turn them into habits.