November 13, 2025

A Thank-You Letter to the Teachers Who Shaped Us

One of the great regrets in life is that we often understand more about our experiences when we look back at them. Retrospection often leads to new insights and levels of appreciation that were absent during some of life’s most important occurrences. After all, the old adage says that youth is wasted on the young.

An obvious example for many of us is our failure to appreciate the people who guided and shaped who we have become: our teachers. Of course, as students we were likely to dismiss and push back on what they expected of us. We thought that we knew what was best. Unfortunately, we did not have enough life experience and perspective to make every decision on our own. We needed to pay attention, heed their advice, and follow their guidance. Too often, it was only after we left school that we came to appreciate the difference our teachers made.

In this season of gratitude, take a moment to consider that only later did it become clear to us that the teachers who pushed us to lift our aspirations and increase our investment in learning did so because they saw in us potential that we did not yet realize we possessed.

The teachers who challenged us and pushed the boundaries of our learning knew that the most valuable learning we would develop would come with struggle and frustration. They reminded us that mistakes are a natural part of the learning process. They urged us to use errors and mistakes to adjust our approach and guide our learning.

The teachers who held high expectations and refused to lower them when we failed to make our best effort were teaching us a valuable lesson about life and learning. When the work was hard, they urged us to focus on the quality of our effort and strategies, not on how to “work the system” or find an easier path.

The teachers who resisted providing us with immediate answers were not necessarily being difficult. Learning where and how to find answers for ourselves was a lesson we continue to rely on. Knowing how to solve problems on our own serves us well in situations when we face dilemmas and no teacher is present to provide a formula or show a clear path forward.

The teachers who pressed us to focus on what we were learning, not just the grades we received, guided us to focus on what was most important. They reminded us that grades are nothing more than symbols. At their best, grades do little more than capture the progress we were making and learning we had gained.

We might agree that, at the time, we did not show our teachers our full appreciation. Of course, at the time we did not fully know, let alone appreciate, the impact they were having on us and our lives. Only now, years later, have we come to understand how they changed our lives and helped us to become who we are today.

Thank you, teachers, for your investment in the learning and the lives of our most precious resources—our students. They are the future, and you help shape it. Some of us did not, as students, realize the impact you were making on us. It took some of us a long time to understand and appreciate your significance in our lives. Though it is belated, we hope that you feel the depth of our gratitude. Thank you.